Welcome to my site. I have written several articles for those looking for love and in need of relationship advice.
Dating can be an absolute minefield, as most people will say. You are starting off from a huge contradiction in terms – you are aiming to be natural and yet you are desperately trying to impress him, which often entails putting on a slightly different persona.
There is a lot of information out there on any dating men advice site and it pays to read the advice and remember it but not take it too literally. If you spend the whole date remembering the little hints and tips that you have been told about you will lose all sense of spontaneity and fun.
Be yourself is the key! After all, if you are looking for a long term relationship, then you will not be able to hide behind a different self for ever. You will be bound to be caught out in the end and this may well be the end of your relationship.
Make you and your character the central thing and build from there. Never try to be something you are not and never aim to deceive. Even if you have what you believe to be character flaws it is better to bring them out at an early stage.
So yes, take advice from the experts at the dating game. They will give you a great insight and be able to offer some excellent tips on how to dress and how to act on a first date. But firstly and fore mostly stay true to yourself.